When I retired at the age of 48, over two years ago in September of 2018, my finances and portfolio looked very different than today, but that was the plan. I had built one portfolio to get me to FIRE (Financial Independence Retire Early), and now I have to unwind that to see me through what I hope will be a very long and successful retirement.

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Newly retired and enjoying a local craft beer

The work, the effort you put into retiring early doesn’t end on the day you leave the office for the last time. In many ways, the work is just beginning. You’ve spent years, maybe…


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What makes someone working toward FIRE (Financial Independence Retire Early) different from others is that:

We are prepared, or should be.

That we have a plan that is sound, or should.

That we have a community that is supportive, or should be.

That we are strong enough to make difficult decisions when others panic, or should be.

That we are patient when others are anxious, or should be.

That we are proactive, or should be, when others are reactive.

That we are confident, or should be, when others are doubtful.

I get that this current shock to the economy and…


Obviously up is better right? Things are looking up, or if someone says, “there’s a lot of upside to this” that sounds great. Compare that to we’re on the way down, or there’s a lot of downside to this, those don’t sound so good. How about a thumbs up, great, versus thumbs down, bad.

In our financial life we want our investments to go up and we want to buy low and sell high. When things are going well it’s said that they’re looking up.

Up is not always good, however.

Have you ever ridden a bike? Up a really…


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When any kind of movement gains traction the “experts” come out of the woodwork. It seems that anyone working toward FIRE, Financial Independence Retire Early, suddenly knows exactly what you should or shouldn’t do with your money, your hobbies, which car you should drive, which job you should take, how much you should spend on groceries and on and on.

Are you maxing your 401k? No? You’re a fool.

Do you have a high deductible health plan so you can have a Health Savings Account (HSA)? No? What’s wrong with you?

You bought a new car? What were you thinking…


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Have you said those words? “So, that’s how the other half lives.” Or maybe you’ve experienced some luxury that’s out of the ordinary and asked, “Is this how the other half live?”

I know I’ve said it often, from visiting Aspen, CO to going out to dinner at a fine restaurant, to flying first class, I’ve wondered who these people are, the people who experience lavishness on a regular basis.

I know people have also asked the same about me. Why? Because I retired at the age of 48, split my time between NJ and CA, and have, what many…


Have you ever been part of a fringe movement, a group of people who think outside the norms of society?

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There are bad fringe movements, climate change deniers or flat Earthers, for example, and there are good fringe movements such as the one I’m part of, the financially secure. But wait, is someone who has their financial act together really a member of a fringe group?

I say, yes, especially when you consider that 78% of Americans are living paycheck to paycheck, that most people can’t cover a $1,000 emergency, and that our collective debt load stands at 14 trillion…


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Scanning Twitter not too long ago I saw #MillenialRetirementPlans trending and seeing as I’m writing a book on financial independence and early retirement, the hashtag caught my interest.

Variously funny, sad, and downright apocalyptic, the tweets got me thinking. This one in particular made me think about my own progress early in my working career.


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I have to say that there are some really strange ideas out there about savings. The math of savings is really simple but people tend to complicate it, mostly to feel better about themselves and how much they think they’re saving.

The very simple math of savings is:

Total income — total expenses = savings

(savings/total income)*100 = savings rate

Some people will say that they figure their savings rate based on after tax income. At best this will result in a similar savings rate as including taxes but will over complicate the formula. At worst it will lead to…


The full quote, “Quitters never win and winners never quit,” is attributed to Vince Lombardi and it’s a good one that I don’t think falls into the category of dumb quotes, but, like most quotes, it doesn’t capture the full story.

I guess I’m saying this because I both quit and won.

I’ve already written why owning a business was both my biggest success and my biggest failure, now I want to look at the process that brought me to victory and the ability to quit. …


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A house fire, a skiing accident, being turned down for a renovation, losing out on a promotion, and failing at business. All of these events setup a future success. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a fan of failure but I won’t let it stop me either.

Dealing with adversity comes down to a mindset. Sure, I let myself get mad and even feel sorry for myself when things don’t go the way I want them, but then I focus on the next step, the thing that will turn this bad event into a good outcome. …

AJ Borowsky

Financial Life Coach | http://bit.ly/2lqZA7m | Author: What Next A Proactive Approach to Success. http://amzn.to/2x1FEvC #Curious, #adventurous

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